The H has PTSD and is in denial about it. I didn't like the way he blew hot then cold with the h. The H has a girlfriend that he meets with just about every Friday to have sex with. The sex with the gf is very mechanical and it is sort of descriptive. I don't normally like books with sex scenes with OW but this wasn't that bad and didn't really bother me.
The H and h had met and he had sex with his gf a few days after the meeting but the meeting was only for about 5 or 10 minutes and it wasn't in a social setting. The H is a police officer and they met while she was causing a disturbance. He does break up with his gf before pursuing the h.
The H is very unstable in this book. There was a lot about his temper that I didn't like and he self harms. He really treated the h like shit through a lot of the book and the h has some health issues as well. He never hit her but he was verbally abusive several times.