Solved: Single dad(tstl) and childcare provider

What kind of wuss is he. His first relationship did not work out. He finds a girl who adores both him and his daughter, and who his daughter adores right back. He starts a relationship and sleeps with her and then because his ex wants to play house herself when she finds out. Pushing our girl to the side, he goes back to the previous relationship without nary a whimper. Does the full relationship thingy seemingly with no thought to our girl. (Alluded to later, but yuk).   Only when that doesn't work out does he show up on our girls door, after waffling several months before doing so. Not only that, he brings his daughter with instead of approaching her privately. Unfortunately our girl caves way too fast. Imho this guy is just too back and forth. Wish she had made him grovel and beg just a bit or at least insisted on waiting until he went and got his wishy-washy self tested. Instead its 'oh it's my turn again. Here's your son, isn't he cute.  Hold him while i pack my house'  And the ex is a piece of work. She was okay with status quo until someone else comes along. And then she has to show up right before the wedding...couldn't come a day earlier or wait a day? Uhg!