Security Firm H and Food Blogger h

I'm 99% sure its Rude, he was her nemesis growing up, his family were her foster parents and he resented her and they had an acrimonious relationship. Then he likes her, after being through things as a soldier he recognizes the look she had in her eyes and realizes he'd been a huge jerk to a girl who had been through bad things. That scene with the phone and panic attack is in it, she's a food blogger, he's a former military now security consultant. She tells him to let her up while he's on the phone, he clamps his arm around her and lectures her about not getting her way and his job is important blah blahblah and meanwhile she's having a panic attack, She gets away and hides in the bathroom and curls up behind the commode.